“You broke my trust”,
“I trusted you but all you could do was prove me wrong?”,
“I cannot trust anyone, anymore for all that the wrong people have done to me!”
And the list is endless. Hi, this is my first post & being a HR professional, trust me maybe I like analyzing people & their behaviour way too much.
What according to you is trust?
“A feeling of being safe with someone, that you can be your vulnerable self in front of them without thinking even a bit.”
“that someone is being honest & real with you always.” I don’t know how do you perceive the meaning of this word but to me, “it is to believe that someone can do wrong but won’t do anything wrong with you.”
I have seen a lot of people turning into something they swore they never would. Has this changed me as a person? Yes, absolutely. Now that I’ve an idea as to how much selfish a person can be, I know I don’t have to accept/listen to what they say blindly. But is there any end to it? Why do people break someone’s trust in the first place? Is it a habit or it happens unintentionally?
Well well, don’t take me wrong but some people do have this as a habit & the others just do it either knowingly or unknowingly. Believe me, it takes a lot of time to get over the fact that, that somebody just played with you & your belief, in order to make themselves feel better but that’s how it is!
Now talking about those who have done this deed or misdeed of breaking someone’s trust. You think it is easy to make a fool of someone & live at peace with yourself?
If the other person has lost their sleep because of someone like you, one day even you’ll face the same thing sooner or later!
Once you have really hurt someone, it will always be in the back of their mind even if they still have a smile on their face!
And now I would like to end this post on a positive note, that even if people have wronged you in some or the other way, yes, it might seem impossible right now to accept these things wholeheartedly but someday you’ll!
And then you’ll laugh on all those things & those people who wouldn’t matter to you anymore..Till then, stay strong & let everything pass on with time. Not everyone is going to be good to you, most of them are not even good to themselves! So stay calm & shine on! 🙂